"Stop Making your D&D Characters Nonchalant", a great video by a youtuber with under 500 subs

Recently got this video recommended on my YouTube feed.

It's something that I definitely have been guilty of in my early TTRPG days. Now I try to create characters which always have some sort of reason or personality trait that explicitly makes them "chalant" (as he called it), or simply, you know, care about things that are happening during the session.

Frankly, it can be frustrating to see people older than teenagers refusing to play any character type that is not a variation of the "nonchalant" trope.