The Tragic Life of a Tall Twink

Starting a new series where I tell you some of my experiences. So, they say never change yourself to be in a relationship because it isn't the actual version of you. What about when your boyfriend was clearly and openly trying to change you.

So, throwback to February 2023, I had just turned 19 and I get into this talking stage with this guy. He's 23 and well off. So, it starts up real cute with constant phone calls and just awesome conversations then boom, something happens somewhere in the middle. Every fuckin phone call turned into a therapy session where he would constantly manipulate me into telling him about my life problems and his response was always " You are not okay, you need to get your shit together"

This became like an everyday thing which was usually followed by, " You should try Buddhism, I just started and I think we would do great together". He didn't even hide it. He literally said, let's become monks because our relationship dynamic will become better and you can finally stop being a shitty person with too many problems 😭. Lmao. The romance and sparks were long dead.

So I told him one day I don't wanna do this anymore, I'm done. He calls me drunk a week later where he says I broke his heart and that he saw us going somewhere and we should at least meet up first. So I meet him, we talk and he buys lunch...and that evening he texts saying " yeah, maybe we won't work"

Lmao. The tragic life of a tall twink.