Having a hard time with Mom friends

So long story short, after having my daughter at home 3 years ago, I was strongly advised by my midwives to probably not have any more children. Which for us, great! We were planning on only having one. But, literally no other Moms that I’ve met in my area feel the same way. So as expected, they have 2 or 3 kids and I definitely feel like the odd one out.

As a one and done Mom, did you eventually find your one and done bestie along the way? For me it’s extremely overwhelming to be around a bunch of other kids, but also feels selfish to want a friend that only has one kid.