Newlywed Genius Struggling with Partner's Comprehension...

Only married a few months. Been a couple for a few years. I qualify for MENSA and will be joining soon. My partner does not qualify. Specifically BECAUSE of my brain and how it functions, I was given an incredible career opportunity. It's genuinely my dream, something I've worked years to achieve and I DID IT. The more success and positive attention I receive because of my work...the worse they are behaving. I have disability diagnoses that my partner knew all about before we began dating. The began the relationship when I was really in a bad place, financially, job-wise, all that. They LIKED me when I was DOWN. I supported THEM when they were out of work for a while. I was a GOOD partner. I built them UP. Now I see that the better I do as a disabled person with a high IQ...the angrier and more resentful my newlywed spouse behaves. Their IQ is around 110-120 and I am as patient as I can be...but the logic of how MY SUCCESS is OUR SUCCESS is not getting through. WTH is happening with my spouse??? I love them and want the marriage to work.