How does lupus make you feel? Trying to understand my mom.

Hey! I’m a 28, female, and my mom, 58ish, has lupus.

She’s been really struggling with it recently. Missing a lot of work due to her symptoms. This is probably the worst I’ve seen her.

But, she’s pretty reserved when it comes to telling us how bad she feels and what exactly she’s experiencing.

I know people’s experiences differ, but what is your experience? How does it make you feel? What are your symptoms?