Trouble making straight friends? Just me?

So wondering if this is just me or maybe not? I’ve always had trouble making friends with other women especially when they are part of a group. All my friends are bi (even when I don’t know it initially) or super masculine straight women (usually military, CO or cop) or women who are 30 or 40 years older than me. But cliches of women my age especially the typical soccer mom types hate me no matter how much I try to be their friend. Is this a thing for other not straight girls or am I just for some reason unlikable to certain kinds of women?