Just so tired of dealing with my coparent

Everything has to be an issue, EVERYTHING.

We only share one child, our daughter (4). We have 50/50 currently since April 2023, I already have a lawyer retained to get that adjusted.

He had three police cars at my house last night on Christmas Eve. Why? Because he was convinced that he had our daughter for Christmas starting Christmas Eve at 6pm. This is based on our states coparenting holiday schedule, which is NOT in our court order. We were supposed to come up with our own holiday schedule per both of our requests and shocking he’s never come up with one with me despite me trying to get him to countless times.

I told him so many times that we do not follow that schedule and that I would have our daughter for Christmas this year as it falls on my custody day. I even went to the police station yesterday with my certified copy of the court order so that this wouldn’t be an issue. They told me that obviously I was correct and it wouldn’t be an issue. So why did they all show up to my house at 8:15pm on Christmas Eve as I’m getting my three children ready for bed???? And they had my ex and his wife in tow, parked down the street. I gave them the same court order and they went and showed it to him. He had provided him with a print out of the state holiday schedule 🙄. After some yelling from him and his wife, they were told that it’s a civil issue and they are welcome to file a complaint against me but per the court order, I had our daughter for Christmas.

I’m just so tired, we haven’t been together in over two years. He cheated and left me and got married, he’s supposed to be happy and moved on. His wife’s pregnant with his first son. Why can’t he just leave me alone?