How do I have fun till I find the one?

After many years of singledom I recently have found that my soul wants a deep connection. I’m lookin for my husband. I’m not under any suspicion that that will just happen out of thin air, but I find myself romantically/affectionately/sexually frustrated along the way. I can tell instantly if someone has potential and it’s rare that I meet such people. So in the meantime, how do I let loose and enjoy connecting with people who aren’t the one until I find that person? It’s like my body needs physical touch and affection but given the opportunity my mind/spirit loses interest because there’s no potential with this person. Just winds up with a lot of frustration. Entering my asexual era and I DONT LIKE IT.