Update: My mom wants me to apologise to my girl best friend because I called her shallow and made her cry after she asked me out
Hey everyone, just a quick update since a few people messaged me asking if I had an update.
I realized after reading the comments that I kind of lost control of emotions, and shouldn’t have said what I said. I met Ana at school today, and apologized and told her I didn’t mean what I said, it was just that I had no romantic feelings for her now, but I also valued our friendship. Ana looked really sad and I was kind of worried she was going to cry again, so I apologized a lot more, and told her what I said to her last time wasn’t me at all, and I was just going through some personal stuff (I lied about this, but I was just trying to make Ana feel better).
We talked for a few more minutes, and Ana accepted my apology, and she asked if we could hang out today. I told her I had plans with my sister, and Ana asked if we could hang out later in the week. I was honest with Ana, and told her that while I value our friendship, I just think we need some space between us, as both our emotions are a bit raw. Ana looked sad, and she asked how long, and I told her I don’t know, maybe a week, a month, who knows. But since our friendship was valuable, some temporary space wouldn’t hurt our friendship at all, and it could even strengthen it
Thats probably my final update, thank you all for your comments on my previous post.