Separation

Looking for some guidance/advice, my ex husband and I split 1.5years ago, since then I have been calm and patient while he goes through the motions of grief that I had experienced myself for the last two years we were together. He wants to buy our family home and I’ve tried to help him in every way but now he is lowballing me and has morphed into this unknown person with a lot of anger and outside influences that have me in an extremely negative light.

I created a spell jar based on our house sale, sweetness, compassion and surrounded by the love we once shared in the hopes of a peaceful and fair outcome which has not worked and now I am talking to a lawyer about full custody of the kids and a fair outcome with the house.

We have two children so I don’t know if cord-cutting would work as we still need regular communication, and I still want to have an ok relationship with him so the kids don’t have to put up with any negative attitudes around them.

Are there any other spells that I could work with, any suggestions from someone who has been in my position?