“This is why I don’t want kids” line

Y’all! How have we not discussed the comment Janelle relayed when discussing the text thread story about how one (or some?) of the kids said that the family dynamic has contributed to their decision not to have kids?! It’s in passing but made my ears perk up since it’s something we’ve speculated on before. Question is, do we think it was one of the OG kids, or one of Robyn’s older ones? I could see a strong case for either…