My experience with 3 girls in last 12 months

Honey Singh was right: Man really predicted the dating scene like a prophet. Let me explain:

So, one day I installed a dating app. Full disclosure—I was looking for a long-term, wholesome relationship. None of that hookup stuff. I matched with a thick curves- pretty girl, Even our names kinda matched and things started off great. We exchanged witty jokes, texted all the time, and one night, we ended up talking till late. The next day, she was a bit tipsy and told me I could ask her anything about her life. Of course, I went for the classic “Tell me about your first time.”

Turns out, she wasn’t a virgin. No biggie. But then she casually mentioned she’d hooked up with two guys before—and oh, also had an ex she was really into. And let me tell you, it wasn’t the ex part that stung. It was the hookup thing. Like, why, Miss ? Anyway, we eventually called it off, because things just weren’t working out (and no, we never even met).

Fast forward, I meet this other girl through someone,Works at an NGO, super smart, beautiful, and hilarious, she is pursuing law ,Our vibe was basically Tom and Jerry—constant banter. One day, she asks if I’ve ever kissed someone and hole hanging out in irl, Me? Old-school gentleman here, so nope. Then it’s her turn to share. She starts talking about her recent Goa trip (red flag alert). She installed Bumble or tinder while there and matched with a guy. They stayed out late and… yep, they made out. I mean,you just met him! I tried to act unbothered, but it stung, and then she hits me with the cherry on top: “Yeah, the thought of going further did cross my mind.” Ma’am, I didn’t need to know that, this made me feel very crappy, and my heart ached like for a week 💀😂

Anyway, moving on, I started talking to this girl I met through mutual friends in an online game. Things heated up recently,(been talking to each other for a month now)and she asked me to install Snapchat (which I never used, but hey, for her, why not?). We started sharing pictures, had to see how we looked and rated each other so, she sent her picture, turns out she’s a pretty girl with green eyes(Wamiqa Gabbi look alike with green emerald eyes)later she asked me to send her a shirtless pic, as it was night(I sleep shirtless )and had to sent one then, the vibes and mood and (don’t judge—it was accidental. Okay, maybe not,but now I regret for not valuing myself ) and man I’m a bit ripped 🤏 or maybe bit more’, and her reaction? “Are you a virgin?” Bruh. I said yes, and she hits me with, “I don’t believe you—with that face and eyes?”(I have hazel eyes with slight green shade-green part visible rarely )

Now here’s where it gets wild: I ask her if she’s a virgin, and she casually drops this bomb—she hooked up with some guy she barely knew after meeting him once. Not only that, she proudly says she made the first move because, “Guys never say no.” Excuse me, ma’am, what? At this point, I was just sitting there questioning my life decisions.(next day at gym I had to listen to isq-risk and ishq bulaava, to channel all my emotions -energy and range in my workouts while exercising🫡😂)

Finally, let’s talk about my best friend—a woman I consider like a sister. She tells me over coffee one day, “Yeah, casual stuff is pretty common for girls.” And then she drops her life story: After her breakup, she had two “situationships”—one was a hookup, and the other was a trial run for something serious (spoiler: it didn’t work out). She even said she hoped the casual thing would turn into a long-term relationship. Sis, this isn’t Netflix—there’s no “continue watching” button for hookups.

So yeah, moral of the story? It sucks when the girls you’re into don’t value themselves and decide to hook up with strangers. I mean, I get it when it’s an ex—it’s emotional. But a stranger? Feels bad, man, like there’s a knife stabbing me.

Also, shoutout to Honey Singh for seeing the future of dating before anyone else did. “Kuch bhi fresh nahi milega.” Truer words have never been spoken.”

My question is should i give up on my principles of values ,ethics and morality and walk the path of lust as everyone in this generation, Or should I give dating an another shot in this fdup generation?