My parents want me to "consider" detransitioning

Mostly my mom, but they say that because of the current political climate, they say they would rather me "fly under the radar" and not start hormones, not cross dress, and even want me to use my deadname at work. I've never been known as anything but my chosen name at work, to both the patrons and my coworkers.

They first brought it up before Trump was officially sworn in, and I already stated I wasn't comfortable doing it then. Now when they brought it up again and I stormed off without an answer, they made me feel like the bad guy for not being "willing to have a discussion about it."

Frustrating.