How does a 33M get into a relationship in pathanamthitta?

I'm so cooked over here, normally when I lived in bangalore I had a lot of chances to meet and interact with people. I moved to 10anamthitta two years ago and run a service based business online from home. It's going good but my God, I cannot meet a single girl here. No one leaves their home. I'm so sick and tired of riding 50-100km to kochi or kollam or tvm, not connecting and wasting so much time and money. For example a two day date to TVM ended up costing me 35k 6 months ago. A getaway to varkala over the weekend costs 20k. Inevitably I'm the one always paying because I'm the one travelling to meet them.

I hate going to church and the whole matrimonial site thing is a dead end I think, cause I like shaving my head.

So what are my options? Is it impossible to find a partner naturally in this district or do I take an L grow my hair out again and hope someone bites in some matrimonial thing. I'm so over blowing so much time and money on dates and relationships that implode in 3-6 months.