Maydumb- Doormat or not??

I don't understand why everyone has so much sympathy for Maydumb and call her the doormat. Seeing her vlogs, I understand she just created a narrative of being shuddh adarshwadi bahu. The relationship between Maydumb and janaab was purely of give and take which ultimately Maydumb took to the marriage. It was Maydumb who cheated being in a marriage, it was Maydumb who converted over and again but not the other party. Even I feel, they might not have forced her to convert because kabhi wo samsung ban jati hai to kabhi Ibrahim as per her convenience.in MasterChef also the drama she is showing, describes her personality a lot. So in my opinion she is the most cunning woman. She doesn't do anything if she doesn't want to do. Big Boss k time itna uchhal uchhal kar boli thi ki ammi k liye ghar lena hai par wo li kya BMW. The way she made that Sorry to say, it was only for drama as nobody asked her why u kept your father-in-law at your home but Bhashan dene aa gayi thi. Sometimes, uski overacting dekhkar even janaab ka face bhi ban jata hai ki "bas kar behen itna kyun kar rahi hai?" Not a single one is genuine in the clan but Maydumb is not a doormat.