I hate being an ENFP

I just learned the other day I’m one. I wasn’t so happy because I feel like my strengths are useless in my life. I want a stable marriage with kids. I want to be organized in a job that I have to have that trait. I’m sorry for being negative. It also says we are more likely to cheat. I can’t hold a long term relationship because my mind always thinks there is something better. I want stableness sorry I had to vent