always choose the gentle one

after years of being made to feel like every time i share my struggles, i only spread negativity and burden those around me, i finally found someone who genuinely listens and even thanks me for being open to him.

this is a big thing for me, as an eldest daughter who has always been independent and as someone who has always been the masculine in my past relationships. i would always keep things to myself because i was wired to figure things out on my own. but now, i don't have to.

i had my phase of thrilling the chase, but they were right — always choose the gentle one. 🤍

after years of being made to feel like every time i share my struggles, i only spread negativity and burden those around me, i finally found someone who genuinely listens and even thanks me for being open to him.

this is a big thing for me, as an eldest daughter who has always been independent and as someone who has always been the masculine in my past relationships. i would always keep things to myself because i was wired to figure things out on my own. but now, i don't have to.

i had my phase of thrilling the chase, but they were right — always choose the gentle one. 🤍