Do you remember the first red flag? And do you wish you walked away then?

For me it was our first fight we had, I should have known. He answered a call from his ex while we were eating dinner around 9pm. Then when I asked him if it was his mom bc I heard a female voice, he said “no it was my ex” and he laughed and smiled. I’m not crazy about ex’s but I just thought it was odd and kinda annoying that he wouldn’t even think to do a bit of a damage control or set boundaries with his ex! When

I asked him if she was aware that he was with me because I felt like it was a bit weird for her to call out of the blue. He said “oh she asked me not to tell her if I was dating someone else”…

Then when i got upset, not even about him being friendly with his ex but the lack of consideration for my feelings, he said “I don’t fight and I don’t do drama”. I should have known then. He never tried to understand.