Serious question about “out”neurodiverse beauty creators.

I’m asking this as a neurodivergent person myself, I do not mean any disrespect.

Also when I say “out” I mean those who have shared their diagnosis publicly.

I’m actually asking because being ND is a big part of my life and I’m curious what people think.

Okay so this came up due to a comment in another thread about a creator who has ADHD and how she might get a pass on some criticism compared to other BGs because she is neurodivergent. Is this a thing?

Because I feel like there are openly neurodivergent BGs who get dragged through the mud with no consideration or grace despite their neurodivergent status.

I feel like there is a LOT of performative “support” in this sub regarding ND stuff but then not actually putting that into practice and will make fun of ND creators for any “cringe” thing they do. Does one get more compassion if they are younger and prettier and “quirkier”?

So…which is it?

TLDR: do ND creators get compassion and grace or mocked relentlessly? Do the ones who do get compassion only treated that way because they are also young, pretty and “quirky”? Obviously it’s a mix but I am super curious what others think.