Female going to male strip show

The girl I've been seeing for some time told me she was going to a male strip show this week with friends and co-workers and I'm ok with it as we are new still but didn't think it was very respectful of our relationship. Is this just good fun for women or is it a deal breaker? I personally have never been to a strip club and I have never paid for any services like OF, but I do watch porn which could be considered in the same realm almost. I feel like if she wanted some penis slapped in her face I could do it but I understand it's about the experience and going out with friends. I used to be insecure when I was younger and have grown out of that for the most part and have gotten better at communication but also think I've maybe became numb to the things that were desk breakers before that I overlooked until it was a problem.