AITA for being frustrated that my husband is always at work?

EDITED TO ADD: I wasn’t expecting any/many responses but, at the suggestion of some commenters, I’ll clarify that we talk very little, if at all, while he is at work. He is busy; I’m not a nag. I never know when he will be home until he gets here — he doesn’t communicate that or when he has appointments that will make him late. We have talked since this post and I’ve asked that he at least send me a quick text when he knows he will be late. I take care of the household, our teenage daughter, our two crazy ass dogs, work full-time plus more if we need any quick money, make dinners, make his food to take to work with him, do laundry and prepare his uniforms, making sure all bills/fees are paid, grocery shopping, meal planning, etc, while he is away. This post comes after he didn’t get home until 1130 on Saturday after being gone since 730AM, and didn’t get home until 930 last night after being gone since 730AM, back to back. So, in frustration, I wanted to know if I was TA for being upset at no communication and all-day hours most days of the week. I love my husband; I have no cheating concerns; I’m very proud of him and happy that he is successful (I actually encouraged him to get into sales bc of his strengths). It’s just hard to be alone all the time, especially when it’s a mystery when he will be home each day.

ORIGINAL: Before his new job in sales, my husband worked for very little money and was really taken advantage of. Now, he’s at a place he loves where he has excelled very quickly.

But he’s never home. He technically gets two days off a week, but he’s often working still on one of them. Even on days when he’s supposed to get off of work at 6pm, he won’t get home until after 9pm (when he left home originally at 730AM).

We are still newlyweds - I guess? We just celebrated our one year wedding anniversary. I say celebrated but we actually didn’t do anything together so, there’s that.

It’s great that he’s making good money. It’s even better that he’s happier in this job than he was in his previous one. But, I don’t know how much longer I can take this. It’s like there are no boundaries for him when it comes to work and, if theres even the slightest possibility of a sale, he will stay at work instead of coming home. I’ve tried telling him the money isn’t needed THAT badly, but nothing has changed.

I don’t really know what the solution is. It doesn’t much seem like he cares to change how things are. It’s just an awful feeling.

Oddly enough, I was single for a VERY long time before meeting him and hadn’t considered marriage to be all that important to me. Part of me feels like this should be much easier, given that, but it’s not.

Can anyone relate? Advice? AITA? I just mostly hope to know I’m not alone in feeling this way.