Men in online women's spaces

I play a game that's mainly targeted at women and is a very safe game without over-sexualization of female characters. It's considered a girly game. I participate to the online community around this game, and guess what? It's been from day zero invaded by men who claim that "hey, I have a dick, and I like this game". They have absolutely zero clue how this is condescending to say that they approve of this game that's for wOmeN. And when you tell them, they get offended and tell you you have zero idea how much they have suffered through their whole life because they like girly stuff. Apparently, we not being supportive of their pain on this forum about a girls game is undermining their effort to become an ally to us women. It's our fault if they hate us, ya know. They want to educate us women on male suffering. In a place where it has absolutely zero positive effect on fighting against the system that apparently oppresses them. Even in this very niche game's social media platform, men are poisoning the space. I just can't fucking stand them anymore. Men are poison.